Moving in for the kiss.......Part 2
Once you think the time is right, make your approach and move in for the kiss. Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will freak her out. She wouldn't have time to enjoy the kiss because she isn't expecting it. This is the final few seconds of anticipation, when your eyes are locked and nothing is being said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss a lot more than if a kiss is taken from her.
Your approach must be slow and smooth. Smile and take this chance while you are close to enjoy her smell. Don't go directly for the lips, take a detour and hover her face while gently skimming your lips along her cheeks and then slowly move toward her mouth. Pull back and look into her eyes again. While moving in be sure to close your eyes the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes while moving in closer will leave her thinking you are examining her imperfections and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will freak her out. There have been a few times when I caught a woman with her eyes open and let me tell you, there is nothing weirder. I'm sure that women find it even more bizarre.
The first kiss must be gentle. You don't want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. The key is to meet her lips, and for crying out loud, don't be one of those guys who forces his tongue down a woman's throat. A French kiss on your first attempt will make you seem over-eager and slimy. Women remember the first kiss and making it as gentle, sensual, and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.
After meeting her lips for a few seconds, pull away and look into her eyes some more. Notice if she is enjoying the kiss and if she doesn't move in herself within a couple of seconds (which happens most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little longer while remaining gentle and sensual.
Enjoy Her Lips And The Kiss
Give the woman you are kissing the impression that just kissing her is enjoyable enough. Don't start petting her inner thigh or her breasts during the first few kisses or she'll think you're just trying to get laid. Take time to enjoy the kiss and don't rush. Gently rub your lips against hers as though you are enjoying every last contour. Don't just lock your lips, you want to feel every bit of her lips. Move from upper lip to lower lip and vice versa. Do whatever you can that says: "I don't want to miss even a millimetre of your lips."
Relax And Breathe
Relax and make sure you are breathing. Breathing, though second nature, is very easily forgotten in many activities. Not that you'll end up suffocating if you're into a kiss too much, but it is very common for people to lose their breath while kissing and making silly sounds when their bodies involuntarily compensate for the lack of oxygen.
Touch Her While Kissing
One of the most effective kissing tips you will ever read has nothing to do with your lips. Touching a woman the right way is kissing advice you must not overlook. Men can be turned on by a simple kiss, but women need a lot more. Using your hands by touching and/or cupping her face will show that you are attracted to her and allow her to feel attractive. Gently touch the outer part of her arms or hold her hands. Run your hands through her hair. Just remember to keep it innocent and not to feel her up.
Don't Just Kiss Her Lips
After kissing her lips and determining that she is enjoying it, move on to other parts of the face. The side of her mouth, cheeks, temple, forehead, and anywhere else on her face . Women want to feel beautiful and if you gently kiss different parts of her face, she will feel as though you cannot get enough of her entire face. Don't overdo it though - you are not a dog.
Say Sweet Nothings
You can say sweet things to a woman before, during, and after a kiss. Tell her that you've had a crush on her for a while and were looking forward to kissing her. Comment on the softness of her lips and how pleasant she smells. Make her feel as though she is the most attractive woman you've ever kissed and I promise you she will open up even more and be comfortable in progressing into French kissing or even sex. Learning how to French kiss deserves its own kissing advice article so I won't get into it here. Just know that comfort level is important in getting the most out of a kissing session.
The kissing tips I've outlined above work brilliantly. I give kissing advice to a lot of men and never have any of them been disappointed. I know that these tips on how to kiss girls will help and hope that you enjoy ever last minute while your lips are touching hers.
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Author: Jesse Allen