How to attract women with body language? - Part 1
Using body language to attract gorgeous girls is easy when you learn one of the best-kept secrets in the communications arena, which is "vibe projection." In fact, the term "body language" and "vibe projection" could be used interchangeably since they are basically the same thing.
The effective use of non-verbal tools comes from within. If you want your body to send the right type of messages you need to think in terms of vibe, rather than just trying to learn some secret posture or movement that will make women crazy for you.
Most guys believe that they can fake body language easily. But the truth is, that unless you internalize the feelings of the attributes that you want to display, females won't perceive you the way you want them to.
So, let's say that you want women to perceive you as a confident man. Well, you need to feel like a confident man. Although it sounds difficult, there are some fast and easy ways to achieve this.
All you have to do when you want to feel confidence is use a nice fragrance. Believe it or not, a nice fragrance will affect your emotions. According to Psychologist Rachel Herz: "Our sense of smell is integrally tied to our emotions, our memories, our behaviors." So, just by finding the right scent your non-verbal messages will be 100% more effective.
Dress to impress
Just like with scent, making an effort to dress well will change your feelings and, as a result, the signals that you send through body language. This is a fast and easy way to change how the world perceives you, and how they react to your messages.
You see, must guys approach body language in the wrong way. They believe that there are secret postures and moves that will help them attract women instantly. And although it's true that if you learn to move and behave confidently your messages will be more effective, it all comes from within.
Is there more to it than that? Well, yes. I encourage you to learn everything you can about body language. But keep in mind that unless you work on your feelings you will fail miserably.
Learning the ins and outs of body language is indispensable, since 80% of what you say doesn't come out of your mouth. Unless you a understand how to communicate effectively you won't be able to attract the type of women that you want.
Author: Luigi Carucci